The world is a small place. Love has no boundaries. Together, these two statements create many international romances. International love can add excitement and diversity to a relationship, but it can also create several problems, especially when it comes to weddings. Many couples find themselves pondering which cultural traditions to incorporate into the ceremony. With numerous wedding traditions throughout the world, ceremonies are more and more multicultural in nature. Even couples from the same country often look to other cultures for unique ceremony ideas. Described below are a few wedding traditions rooted in
Korea
Family is plays a very important role in the marriage process. First, the bride must be formally introduced to the groom’s family during the P’yeback, or Introduction ceremony. Then, at the conclusion of the wedding ceremony, she is formally introduced as a new member of the groom’s family. It is common for the groom’s father to toss ju jibes, or red dates at the bride to bless her with many children.
The bride’s gown is made of a colorful silk material, with the only white parts being the sleeves. The most noticeable part of her attire may be the large red dots painted onto each of her cheeks. This makeup characteristic is believed to ward off evil spirits and bring her good luck.
As a symbol of lifelong fidelity, many Korean weddings include ducks or geese. Whether the couple chooses to have live animals are present on their special day or simply incorporate artificial geese into their decorations, these animals are a must. Ducks and geese mate for life, thus severing as the perfect symbol of faithfulness.
France
Fragrant flowers have been a common French wedding accessory for centuries. Each flower carries a special meaning for the couple and is selected with extreme care. One of the most common traditions is the scattering of laurel leaves outside the church exist as the couple attempts their get-away.
One tradition that has been carried down from generation to generation is a special toast. Using a family heirloom known as the Coupe de Marriage, the newlyweds drink from this special cup that has two handles which symbolize their new life together.
Just as the couple is able to have some alone time after the reception, friends gather outside their room noisily banging pots and pans. This is all done in good fun, for the groom invites everyone inside where they continue celebrating.
