Bilingual Weddings
November 18th, 2006 Posted in Wedding Planning and IdeasAs the world becomes increasingly more multicultural, weddings are changing to meet the bilingual needs of the bride and groom. For some couple their guests are bilingual and will understand either of the languages, but for other couples many of their family members only speak their native tongue. Couples have several options so that everyone feels included and appreciated.
A couple can choose to have two separate ceremonies. This is a popular option for couples with families living in different countries. It is cheaper for the couple to travel instead of having an entire family travel. Plus, some family members may be prevented from traveling due to health problems or legal issues. It is not always easy – or cheap – to receive a visa for certain countries. And most importantly, having two separate ceremonies will eliminate the problem of choosing a ceremony language.
Yet, incorporating both languages into a single ceremony is not impossible. If you are thinking of having the entire ceremony translated in both languages, you may want to consider less tedious options that will still make all of your guests and family members feel welcome. Consider translating only the really important parts of the ceremony such as the vows and certain prayers. The remaining parts can then be divided between the two languages. To help fill in the gaps and keep all guests attentive, a brief explanation of each step of the ceremony can be written in a program, which of course would be available in both languages.
Do not forget about the reception! It is best to plan ahead of time who will be giving toasts and make sure that they will be given in both languages. Music is also important. Although finding a bilingual DJ or band would be ideal, you can work with them to incorporate certain songs or to schedule blocks of music for both languages.
Multicultural weddings do not just blend the language. Incorporating customs from both families will give an added dimension of tradition and uniqueness to both the ceremony and reception. Do not worry when it comes to leaving out certain traditions. Time may not permit that all traditions be included. Both families will understand this, and they will also appreciate the effort taken in acknowledging the two cultures.